Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc

#052: Blooper Reel 4 - Uhm...Asking for a Host

As we celebrate our 15 Month-A-Versary, we continue to grow our podcast! Listen to TalkDoc, Teighlor and Meredith’s latest blooper reel to hear more of our uncoordinated moments. Special thanks to our listeners from all 50 U.S. States and from over 72 countries. Thank you for listening to Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc!

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#051: Now We’re Talkin’ - How to Get Someone to Tell You More

Do you ever find yourself wanting to have a two-way conversation with someone else, but realize you’re mostly having the conversation with yourself? In this episode of “Asking for a Friend with TalkDoc,” we explore three simple communication tools we can use to quickly jump start a two-way conversation. TalkDoc teaches us the principle of getting out of our own way and the steps we can take to make that happen. TalkDoc roleplays with Meredith and Teighlor to show us how to use each of these tools in practice.

Listen in now to learn and laugh along the way with TalkDoc, Meredith and Teighlor so you can try out these three handy tools for better communication in your relationships with others.

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#050: You’re a Mother: How to Pick Your Battles and Help Your Child Write Their Own Story

Being a mother can be challenging and complex! Given the life changing impact a mother’s responsibilities carry, it’s hard to believe that a lot of the learning takes place on-the-job.  That’s why it’s so important for mothers to find places they can turn for real world perspective and practical mother-child relationship advice.

In this episode of “Asking for a Friend with Talkdoc," we celebrate Mother’s Day and all future and current moms. Soon to be mother, Meredith, poses top questions on her mind to current mothers, TalkDoc and Teighlor. Together the AFAF team discusses the ups and downs of building a positive mother-child relationship.

You’ll hear a range of perspectives from TalkDoc - a mother of three adult children and Teighlor - a mom keeping it together with two kids under three, as well as Meredith’s takeaways as she prepares for motherhood.       

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#049: Fallacies (Part 6): How to Vet Your Influencers

Influencers and endorsers with famous faces and voices are now a multi-billion-dollar industry for the advertising industry. The exploding popularity of social media channels is accelerating this trend.  As a result, we are bombarded nearly by the minute with messages propped up by celebrity, media, and online personalities.  Often these messages leverage the Fallacy of False Authority. So, what steps can we take to more intelligently respond to these messages - especially the ones where the expertise of the individual speaking up in support of a product, service or idea doesn’t at all match?  

In this episode of “Asking For A Friend,” TalkDoc with Meredith and Teighlor, explore the Fallacy of False Authority and it’s cousin Blind Loyalty. You’ll hear examples to better spot this fallacy in your own life.  Then our AFAF team will share practical steps you can take to put what you’ve learned into action to help avoid falling into these fallacy traps.

As you become familiar with how to spot different types of fallacies, including false Authority, you’ll be better equipped to keep an open mind so that you can focus on evidence and ideas vs. the false associations presented by “post hoc” fallacies.

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#048: Fallacies (Part 5): It’s Complicated! How to Avoid Oversimplification

Simplification can be a handy way for us to make sense of something that may seem complex.  But when oversimplification takes over, we may end up missing the truth about what’s really going on. In our everyday relationships it helps to be equipped with detection tools to help us avoid accepting explanations of outcomes that simply aren’t true. 

In this episode of “Asking For A Friend," TalkDoc along with Meredith and Teighlor, discuss types of oversimplification that we encounter in our everyday lives, like confusing correlation with causation.  Then they lay out practical tools for detecting oversimplification and how to move past it to uncover what’s really going on.  

As you become familiar with how to spot different types of fallacies you’ll be better equipped to keep an open mind so that you can focus on evidence and ideas vs the false associations presented by oversimplification fallacies.

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#047: Fallacies (Part 4): Are You Stitious or Superstitious?

Have you ever heard someone blame a superstition on an outcome that is completely unrelated?  Like, “I saw a black cat cross my path and that is why I failed my test.”  If you have, then you know what a post hoc ergo propter hoc fallacy sounds like (Latin for “If therefore because of this”).  

Superstitious “Post hoc” fallacies are another way we attempt to explain events to ourselves. In an earlier episode of “Asking For A Friend” on Mindsets (Episode 4) we talked about how we explain things in our lives to ourselves. In this episode, you’ll learn about more superstitions - like lucky pennies and knocking on wood. 

TalkDoc leads a conversation with Meredith and Teighlor to uncover the dangers in these fallacies and the benefits of understanding the true reasons for an outcome.  You’ll also learn about how superstition “post hoc” fallacies can fuel the flame of shame as well as benefits of isolating the causes for why an outcome actually happened.

As you become familiar with how to spot different types of fallacies you’ll be better equipped to keep an open mind so that you can focus on evidence and ideas vs the false associations presented by “post hoc” fallacies.

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#046: Fallacies (Part 3): How to Spot Scare Tactics

Fallacies come in all shapes and sizes, but what they all have in common is fundamentally unsound. Consequently, fallacies do not hold up under scrutiny.

In part 3 of our series, we explore fallacies based on scare tactics and emotional appeal. You’ll become better acquainted with this type of fallacy, the forms it takes and the power it has to convince you to change your mind.  Listen to TalkDoc, Meredith and Teighlor discuss how to better manage and respond to an encounter with someone who lobs this type of fallacy into your court. 

As you become familiar with how to spot different types of fallacies, you’ll be better equipped to keep an open mind so that you can focus on evidence and ideas versus the origin or people delivering the message.

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#045: Fallacies (Part 2): How to Keep an Open Mind

In part 2 of our series on fallacies, TalkDoc along with her AFAF colleagues Teighlor and Meredith,  introduce additional types of fallacies. As they unpack these fallacies, you’ll learn about the role being rooted in your own values plays when fallacies come your way and the impact of credibility on the believability of an argument. 

As you become familiar with how to spot different types of fallacies you’ll be better equipped to keep an open mind so that you can focus on evidence and ideas vs the origin or people delivering the message.

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#044: Fallacies (Part 1): How to Stop Jumping to Conclusions

In this episode, TalkDoc introduces our new series on fallacies. This week we are looking at the fallacy of hasty generalizations. The team breaks down what this is and why it is important. As you listen with us, consider areas you may jump to conclusions or areas you hear people around you doing this. This fallacy can range from bad parenting advice to stereotypes on categories of people. Remember to consider terms you use, watch out for stereotypes, and as always, research, research, research!

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#043: New Year‘s Resolutions (Part 4): Spending Time Wisely

As an end of the year bonus, we’ll be releasing 4 short episodes on New Years resolutions over the next 4 days! Join us as we learn about what communication resolutions we can make to improve our relationships.

In this episode the AFAF team wraps up our New Year’s resolutions with how to reduce screen time and how to get off the office chair more often. Did you know the average use of screen time is only increasing year by year? Re-listen to our Episode 15 (“What the Phub”) for more detailed information about phone usage and relationships.  Explore with us how you’ll increase your in person presence, off the screen, in 2022. Perhaps increased daily movement can be added to your routine. How will you look up and look out this year? Apply small changes in your day to day and commit to those changes as you reflect on what relationships and communication skills you want growth in this new year.

Don’t forget our giveaway contest! Send us your holiday survival kit story for a chance to win an AFAF podcast mug! Email us at hello@afafpodcast.com or tag us on Instagram @afaf.podcast.

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