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Dr. Pamela Kreiser (with Meredith Edwards Nagel and Teighlor Polendo) shares her practical insights about how to improve relationships and promote peace—drawing upon her experience teaching graduate and undergraduate students, serving as a Lead Mediator, and training Mediators. Submit your questions to hello@afafpodcast.com KEYWORDS: Communication, Interpersonal Communication, Interpersonal Conflict, Relationships, Mediation, Human Connection, Dyadic Communication, Interpersonal Communication Skills.
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Tuesday Feb 23, 2021
#005: Shut Down Mode - How to Manage Stonewalling
Tuesday Feb 23, 2021
Tuesday Feb 23, 2021
In this episode, we discuss a tough communication challenge...Stonewalling. TalkDoc walks us through the analogy of Stonewalling as a warning light on our relationship dashboard. It’s time we unlearn the habit of leaving the light on too long so the whole engine (i.e. relationship) doesn’t break down.
Join our carpool ride hosted by Dr. Pamela Kreiser (along with Teighlor Polendo and Meredith Edwards) for reliable, practical guidance to address these “walls” in ourselves as well as help our partners when we observe them in shutdown mode in front of us.
Music by Epidemic Sound.

Tuesday Feb 16, 2021
#004: Birthday Mindset! How to Stay Positive
Tuesday Feb 16, 2021
Tuesday Feb 16, 2021
In this episode, we navigate the communication art of Reframing and how actively pursuing “reframe” can help us reevaluate events in our lives. Remember, beware the beast of comparison. TalkDoc walks us through powerful and learned tools that help shift our mindsets from fixed to growth. Even Michael Jordan has felt the sting of failure but his growth mindset helped him “reframe” and move into more opportunities for success. Join us as we learn to adopt optimism; don’t worry it’s not the cheap stuff.
Music by epidemic sound.

Wednesday Feb 10, 2021
#003: Sorry, Not Sorry - How to Apologize
Wednesday Feb 10, 2021
Wednesday Feb 10, 2021
In this episode, we dive into cultural differences of apologies, twisted apologies, and non-apologies. Taking responsibility is hard work, no matter who we are or where we come from. We also explore elements of a good apology and discover what the receiver is really listening for. Hint hint: a good apology isn’t about “you.”
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Wednesday Feb 10, 2021
#002: Ah, Defensiveness - How to Manage Defensiveness
Wednesday Feb 10, 2021
Wednesday Feb 10, 2021
In this episode, we learn how defensive language (in trusting relationships) can stop our conversations and relationship development. We explore three ways to trade comfort for growth (TC4G) through acknowledging our own bad habit, as well as learn why perceived threats can be so hard to shake.
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Wednesday Feb 10, 2021
#001: The Message Received is the One That Counts
Wednesday Feb 10, 2021
Wednesday Feb 10, 2021
In this episode, we learn why the message received is the one that counts. We discuss why what we “intend” does not always equal the impact of our messages. Also, does everything said mean something? Or can some things we say be meaningless?
Music by epidemic sound.

Sunday Jan 31, 2021
#000: Nice To Meet You!
Sunday Jan 31, 2021
Sunday Jan 31, 2021
Meet the Asking For A Friend podcast team in this introductory episode! Dr. Pamela Kreiser, Meredith Edwards, and Teighlor Polendo discuss the purpose of the podcast and what to expect in future episodes.
Music by epidemic sound.